tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post8303487950894639539..comments2024-03-29T01:58:27.764-05:00Comments on Duggar Family Blog: Duggar Updates | Duggar Pictures | Jim Bob and Michelle | Counting On | 19 Kids: Jana on Singlehood and ServiceLily and Elliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00941253435533935093noreply@blogger.comBlogger190125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-34261362738417697902017-03-26T22:55:44.231-05:002017-03-26T22:55:44.231-05:00I'll tell you this. When Jana finally meets M...I'll tell you this. When Jana finally meets Mr. Right, EVERYONE will be watching. Especially when SHE walks down that aisle. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-40354554307248843642017-03-20T21:33:28.568-05:002017-03-20T21:33:28.568-05:00I feel so bad that everyone is on this poor girl&#...I feel so bad that everyone is on this poor girl's case for "still" being single. I'm sure she hates that people focus on that. However, I can't help but to wonder what's going on with this. She's so pretty - I'm sure she's had a ton of guys try to win her over. It makes me think she maybe experienced some heartache along the way or, perhaps, isn't overly interested in men or finding a husband (unlikely, but it does cross my mind). If it's what she wants, I hope she finds her Prince Charming.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-7761161811062605932017-03-16T20:20:40.630-05:002017-03-16T20:20:40.630-05:00Jana is a level headed lady. She will know when an...Jana is a level headed lady. She will know when and if the right one comes along. Staying single is not the worst thing in the world. Jana seems happy and contented. <br /> Joan,Marion and MarilynAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-852655224249118482017-03-16T08:14:41.186-05:002017-03-16T08:14:41.186-05:00I don't think they could possibly justify a 30...I don't think they could possibly justify a 30 year old adult "child" of their still having to have a chaperone. That goes for the sons too. It's demeaning to them, IMO.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-14228248003019212512017-03-15T21:20:18.839-05:002017-03-15T21:20:18.839-05:00Please research naprotechnology and Dr. Kyle Beite...Please research naprotechnology and Dr. Kyle Beiter or Dr. Thomas Hilgers. It's innovative and ethical approach to a woman's cycle is refreshing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-20909035247958058212017-03-15T14:14:30.308-05:002017-03-15T14:14:30.308-05:00I just read a comment here ,about Jana as she gets...I just read a comment here ,about Jana as she gets older,having a chaperone.<br />It seems the parents should TRUST her accountability....or she wouldn't <br />be getting to know a suitor....<br /> My goodness...❗️☘Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-22550708065144078142017-03-15T11:06:04.513-05:002017-03-15T11:06:04.513-05:00Perhaps the Duggars would be considered Conscienti...Perhaps the Duggars would be considered Conscientious Objectors, if a draft were ever to be instituted again, and it is against their religious beliefs to serve in the military. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-63605353454106968032017-03-14T22:45:19.230-05:002017-03-14T22:45:19.230-05:00I like hearing from Jana. She seems to have such a...I like hearing from Jana. She seems to have such a kind heart. As much as I love watching and learning about the romantic relationships in the family, I'd love to see a few more episodes on her and what she's doing. As a single, Christian 30-something who is not always "patiently waiting," I find her honesty and sweet nature both beautiful and inspiring.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01029506278705301879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-25934007062335706332017-03-14T17:57:20.785-05:002017-03-14T17:57:20.785-05:00I thought the same thing (@ 6:38) - What mature, i...I thought the same thing (@ 6:38) - What mature, independent, established guy her age will want to follow the Duggar courting standards even if he is a strong Christian? Surely, by that age they can be trusted to make the best decisions for themselves and how they would want to handle a dating/courting relationship, (ie. without chaperones), etc. I would guess that Jeremy wouldn't have done the courting thing they way it was done if it wasn't for JimBob's rules. I have also wondered how Jana must have felt about a guy her age marrying her younger sister? It's not something she'll ever reveal, I'm sure, because it would be too real for the show.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-67773029030570544162017-03-14T16:24:36.502-05:002017-03-14T16:24:36.502-05:00It would be a huge mistake for a mother to step in...It would be a huge mistake for a mother to step in and try to fix everything to keep her child happy. Life brings good times and bad times, happy times and sad times. Children need to understand that growing up. We don't need them to get a false sense of what life is like. Then they will run from person to person or chase different pleasures trying to find and keep happiness. What would you like Jana's mother to do? Find her a husband? An arranged marriage? We can't and shouldn't try to fix all of our children's problems. We need to teach them how to fix their own problems or wait on God's timing for things. Jana is a happy person. She doesn't necessarily enjoy waiting to meet her future mate but again waiting is also part of life. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-64829524408531507442017-03-14T14:25:45.806-05:002017-03-14T14:25:45.806-05:00Well, there are lots of ways to serve your country...Well, there are lots of ways to serve your country besides being in the military. I'm sure if God called one of them to be in the military, they'd do it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-74833708686939719582017-03-14T12:43:51.306-05:002017-03-14T12:43:51.306-05:00I would be very concerned, probably alarmed, for m...I would be very concerned, probably alarmed, for my daughter to be living at home without an education or a career at age 30. Yes, you're hoping she gets married, but what if she doesn't? Sounds like she's just sitting at home waiting for a fairy tale.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-35291357310935571282017-03-14T12:41:53.310-05:002017-03-14T12:41:53.310-05:00Your last sentence doesn't hold true for me, e...Your last sentence doesn't hold true for me, either, and we don't call it a date if the people are married. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-82355237902774816322017-03-14T12:41:04.504-05:002017-03-14T12:41:04.504-05:00That's for sure. She is a prize.That's for sure. She is a prize.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-43476614701891138062017-03-14T12:39:09.619-05:002017-03-14T12:39:09.619-05:00Great point. She has talked about having many suit...Great point. She has talked about having many suitors. I believe Zach Bates was among them. But glad he ended up with Whitney. They're a great couple.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-51533580469345898472017-03-14T12:37:44.235-05:002017-03-14T12:37:44.235-05:003:13 PM -- You are 100% right. The Bible does not ...3:13 PM -- You are 100% right. The Bible does not promise us automatic blessings here on earth for following Jesus. We are looking forward to the ultimate blessing in heaven. Many very devout Christians will have horrible hardships here on earth. Look at Paul, Stephen, etc. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-29355367371731623172017-03-14T12:36:11.886-05:002017-03-14T12:36:11.886-05:00Dawn -- Right on! Dawn -- Right on! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-3878594432007295312017-03-14T12:35:26.140-05:002017-03-14T12:35:26.140-05:002:26 - Yes, her parents DID handle it. It's in...2:26 - Yes, her parents DID handle it. It's in their book and the girls also speak about it. The parents suggested Jana give Jessa her prized music box. It wasn't Jana's idea. Supposedly the relationship got better after that, and I'm sure Jana learned from the experience to "turn the other cheek." But what kind of a message did that send Jessa? What did Jessa learn? To torment someone, and they'll be your doormat? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-68694544093592087332017-03-14T11:22:07.796-05:002017-03-14T11:22:07.796-05:00It said in the book that Michelle suggested Jana g...It said in the book that Michelle suggested Jana give Jessa a prized possession. As obedient a child as I believe Jana was, she would have taken her mom's suggestion. So the parents did have a say in this solution. But I can't remember, did the relationship get better after that?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-89658604205825872982017-03-14T09:41:09.924-05:002017-03-14T09:41:09.924-05:00As a mother, I would feel that it was my duty to m...As a mother, I would feel that it was my duty to make sure my kids were as happy as could be, especially if they were living at home with me! If something was making my daughter sad, I would help her fix it or change it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-84003399688770922122017-03-14T09:27:14.540-05:002017-03-14T09:27:14.540-05:00Thank you both!!! We really appreciate the prayers...Thank you both!!! We really appreciate the prayers!!Laurennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-17325290435043203052017-03-14T09:24:43.748-05:002017-03-14T09:24:43.748-05:00Our sons and brothers and fathers and grandfathers...Our sons and brothers and fathers and grandfathers and... didn't turn away from military service because it would "expose" them to "many things they try to stay away from"! Thank goodness they were brave enough to face anything and everything, to keep us free and safe!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-13196976396736876162017-03-14T08:54:24.827-05:002017-03-14T08:54:24.827-05:00Here in Canada, I know couples married for 50 year...Here in Canada, I know couples married for 50 years who have a weekly "date night"! And when they go out with other couples, they call it "double date". Not unusual at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-42405668364701961402017-03-14T08:24:48.417-05:002017-03-14T08:24:48.417-05:00leticia - What a shame that you find it difficu...leticia - What a shame that you find it difficult to be "still single" at 20. You are very young and have so much ahead of you. I'm awfully glad I didn't get married that young because I matured and learned so much during that time. I am also thankful that my own kids, 19 and 21, are in no rush to get married. Learn how to be happy and content all by yourself first... you can't expect a man to do it for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6925412444274057427.post-68966750922940735202017-03-14T06:23:56.688-05:002017-03-14T06:23:56.688-05:00Why isn't it not a kind heart that worries abo...Why isn't it not a kind heart that worries about fellow human beings being excluded for such a flimsy reason? Especially when it is your sisters doing the excluding?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com